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She said he could earn a small iTunes gift card if he went to school every day that week.

"I will take the bus," Alex said quietly.

"That shows maturity — that shows you are stepping up now," Small said. "Because, trust me, today is the day you've got to step up."

Carmen Frausto began to sob.

"All of us," Small said. "Now is the time to step up."

Frausto wiped her eyes and asked if they had to take Alex to school immediately. Small nodded.

Alex made it through the afternoon at school, and he got on the bus the next morning.

But at a security checkpoint on his first full day back, Alex refused to remove his hoodie, walked out and punched the school wall.

School authorities called police, and Alex ended up at a psychiatric ward in Peoria. He was there for five days.

The episode led to a diagnosis — anxiety disorder, panic disorder and depression — and a regime of medications. His mental health made it "very difficult for him to attend school," a letter from his psychiatrist said.

Yet "it is to Alex's best interest to remain in school despite his severe anxiety of being around other people," the letter continued. "To allow him to be homeschooled will ... perpetuate his avoidant behaviors."

The doctors recommended accommodations for Alex, such as providing an alternative work space if the classroom felt loud and overwhelming, or even the use of noise-canceling headphones.

And so in early November, Alex was once again preparing to return to class.

Puttering with two computers in his family's dining room, he worried out loud that he was three months behind on his schoolwork, didn't have friends and couldn't stay focused.

"I get distracted unless I have my music," he said.

"They have to help you," his mother chimed in.

"That's what they said before," Alex responded. "I'll go, but it's not going to be pretty when I get there."

Alex did make it to school the next day and worked comfortably, with school officials accommodating his occasional need to pace when he got anxious.

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